Izinja zizisa isixa esikhulu sovuyo kunye nemincili ebomini bethu - kodwaUqeqesho olulungileyo lubalulekileukuqinisekisa ukuba ukuziphatha okungafunwayo akubangeli miba kuwe kunye nenja yakho.
Uqeqesho olusisiseko olubalulekileyo kwinja yakho ukuba ifunde lubandakanya indlela yokuhamba ekhokeleni, ukuphuhlisa ukukhumbula kwabo, kunye nokuphendula kwimiyalelo esisiseko efana 'nokuhlala' kunye 'nokuhlala'. Le miyalelo ibalulekile kukhuseleko lwesilo-qabane sakho kwakunye nokwenza ubomi benu kunye bube lula. Ngaphandle kwezi zifundo ziyimfuneko, ukuqeqesha inja yakho kunokukhula ibe yindlela eyonwabisayo yokudibanisa kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane, apho ninokufunda khona nobabini kunye.
Ukuseta iziseko ngoqeqesho olusekwe kwimbuyekezo kunokunceda uqinisekise ukuba inja yakho iyalonwabela uqeqesho lwayo, kwaye iqinise isimilo esihle.
Uqeqesho olusekelwe kwimivuzouthembele kwizinja ezivuzayo xa zenza indlela oziphethe ngayo uzama ukuyiphumeza, kwaye ungahoyi (kodwa ungohlwayi) ukuziphatha okungafunekiyo. Yahlukile kwezinye iindlela zoqeqesho ezifana noqeqesho 'lokungafuni', apho izinja zohlwaywa ngenxa yokuziphatha okungafunwayo, kwaye oku kunokukhokelela kuxinzelelo lwenja yakho.
Uqeqesho olusekelwe kwimbuyekezo lukuvumela ukuba uqeqeshe inja yakho usebenzisa ukomelezwa okulungileyo nokusebenza ngokuhambelana nokuziphatha kwayo kwendalo, kwaye lolona hlobo loqeqesho lwenja olunobuntu nolusebenzayo.
'Imivuzo' esetyenziswa kuqeqesho olusekelwe kwimivuzo inokuba yinto emnandi, ukudlala ngento yokudlala abayithandayo, okanye 'yinkwenkwe/intombazana elungileyo!' ngethoni eyakhayo yelizwi kunye nempambano.
Ke, uqeqesho olusekwe kumvuzo lukhangeleka njani? Umzekelo unokuba ukuba inja yakho ibinomkhwa wokutsiba ukuya kubulisa abantu. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukuba uzame iindlela ezigwenxa zoqeqesho, njengokubeka idolo phezulu xa inja yakho igxuma, oku bekungayi kujongana nokuziphatha kwaye kunokubangela ukuba inja yakho itsibe ukusuka kude ukuze uphephe idolo.
Ukusebenzisa indlela yoqeqesho esekwe kumvuzo, uya kugxila ekuvuzeni inja yakho xa ingatsibanga, kwaye ungayihoyi ukutsiba kwayo ngokupheleleyo (kuquka ukudibana kwamehlo). Oku bekuya kuthetha ukuba xa inja yakho itsiba, ubungayi kuyihoya, uze ulinde de ibe namathupha omane emhlabeni ukuze uyivuze ngokuyiphatha, okanye ingqalelo.
Kungenzeka ukuba inja yakho iya kuxhuma kwakhona, mhlawumbi ngomzamo omncinci, kwaye kufuneka uhlale uyivuza kuphela xa iipaws ezine zisemhlabeni. Kungekudala, inja yakho iya kufunda ukuba ayikuko ukutsiba okuvuzwayo, kukuma okanye ukuhlala - kwaye uya kuqalisa ukuvolontiya ngokuziphatha okufunayo.
Kunokuba ujezise inja yakho ngokutsiba, nto leyo enokubangela ukubhideka kunye noxinzelelo kwaye kungenzeki ukuba iphumelele isiphumo esihle, uqeqesho olusekwe kwimbuyekezo ludala ipateni elungileyo yokuziphatha ngokuvuza izenzo ezilungileyo kwinja yakho.
Ngomonde kunye nemivuzo efanelekileyo, wena kunye nenja yakho ninyanzelekile ukuba nibe nobudlelwane obuhle, kwaye nikwazi ukunandipha lonke ixesha lenu elichithwe kunye.
Ukuba unenjana entsha kraca okanye wamkele inja endala, kwaye awuqinisekanga ukuba ungaqala ngaphi ngoqeqesho lwayo, isoloko ingumbono olungileyo ukufumana uncedo lobuchwephesha kwaye ubhalise kwisikolo senjana – jonga i-RSPCA yakho yasekhaya ukuze ubone. ukuba baqhuba izifundo zesikolo zobunjana kwindawo yakho.
Ukuba ufumana isimilo esingafunekiyo kwinja yakho, funa iingcebiso kugqirha wezilwanyana okanye kugqirha wezilwanyana.
Ixesha lokuposa: May-17-2024